“He was just an incredible, kind, giving, caring, loving person to everybody,

“Friend, family and stranger: he cared for everybody and helped everybody and always stepped in, which I think is ultimately what took his life.

“This was a profound betrayal by someone who was loved and trusted by the very people he is accused of killing

“Barry was a father. A grandfather. A brother. A best friend. He was a human being whose life and death deserve to be treated with extraordinary care,

“He had a contagious personality, an incredible sense of humor, and a way of bringing laughter and joy to the people around him. His presence will be deeply missed by his family, friends, and everyone whose life was touched by knowing him.

“I love my son

“My grandfather was a Baptist preacher. ‘Love God and love your neighbor,’ was his message,”

“ray of sunshine to his family and those around him, active in the school community and quick to help with any request.